I have been wrongfully slagged off and had some really horrific things said about me, without having my side of the story heard whatsoever, despite submitting it for publishing in SN's comments. So here it is.

I began speaking to Shaun when SN asked me to - to find out information for her. She several times impersonated me in order to speak to him, something I was never comfortable with, but as she was my friend and was so desperate, I let her. The times I did not she accused me of siding with him, called me a cunt, and told me that she hated me.

Since then, I have spoken to Shaun a handful of times, and never with romantic intent, nor with any talk of SN. I waved at him once on webcam and he said I have a nice smile - a comment SN is now obsessed with and one she only knows because she demanded to see every little conversation I had with him.

SN seems to believe that he speaks to me because he is trying to get back at her. How, I ask? I live on the other side of the world, and we chat about everyday stuff. There's nothing going on, it's not even a possibility. And believe me, after the way she treated him, he doesn't care enough to even try to get revenge.

I blogged about honesty yesterday, on my now-deleted blog. It was in no way related to Shaun, but rather to a bad day I'd had at work, and the fact that nearly 3 years of lies and abuse from SN had gotten to me at last.

My dear friend sdweller has been dragged into this, for no reason whatsoever. He is no doubt being hurt by SN's comments, and I think that she is a complete bitch for doing this and what she's said about him and it makes me sick to my stomach. She needs to stop making things up, and stop hurting people for fun. It's sick and wrong.

Contrary to published belief, I am not "so desperate for male attention that you would rather believe him than face the truth". My boyfriend would disagree - my boyfriend in Perth, this hemisphere. If SN had stayed relatively normal and kept her thoughts cohesive she would surely see that I am in love - with an Australian man in Australia.

She is right, I did arrange to meet Shaun and his family when they are here on holiday later this year. That is a perfectly normal thing to do. There have been no secret meeting arrangements or communication, in fact SN knows more than she should about most of my life and conversations. That is how freakishly controlling and psycho she is.

Now I don't need forgiveness from SN, because I haven't done a single thing wrong.

SN, on the other hand, needs to start praying to a God she doesn't believe in, otherwise I can guarantee that she will die lonely and sad, and will go straight to hell.

And that is my side of the story.